From the Friars: The Complaint Department
The initial chapters of the Acts of the Apostles paint an idyllic picture of the early Church. “Now the company of those who believed were of one heart and soul, …There was not a needy person among them, …and distribution was made to each as any had need.” (Acts 4:32-35) But in today’s first reading the reality of our fallen nature is made clear. “As the number of disciples continued to grow, the Hellenists complained against the Hebrews because their widows were being neglected in the daily distribution.” (Acts 6:1)
Anyone with any type of authority will experience complaints. I have heard Cardinal O’Malley say more than once, “I am the complaint department.” Sometimes our grievances are very valid, other times more the self-centered discontent of those who are never satisfied. Our complaints against God can also be legitimate and even holy or selfish and sinful.
The Brazen Serpent, Artist: Tissot. The Jewish Museum, New York
During their journey through the desert, the Israelites complained against God and Moses about the boring food and lack of water. The Lord punished them with deadly snakes because of their pride, lack of faith and ingratitude. Recognizing their sin, they repented and begged for mercy. Then God had Moses make the bronze serpent which became the means of their healing. (Num 21)
But complaining is not always bad. Jesus Himself cried out from the Cross: “My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?” (Mk 15:34) Our Lord is quoting Psalm 22 which is one of the many Psalms of lament, or complaint. The difference is that the Psalm ends in trust, gratitude and praise. “For he has not despised or abhorred the affliction of the afflicted; …but he heard him, when he cried to him.” (Psalm 22:24)
In our prayer it is good to pour out our complaints to Jesus, expressing the reality of our pain and suffering. But it should always be with humility and trust in His Goodness and Providence. Our complaining should never be a putting of God to the test or doubting His Love or Power. Our Blessed Mother suffered greatly at the Cross. But she never doubted. Let us remember this the next time we go to the complaint department.
Pax.
— Fr. Peter